Tag: FTWM vs SAHM

This timely tag came in from her who was also at the cul-de-sac of deciding what’s best for her next. I wish her all the best in either option she chooses ya.

Anyways, back to me.. some of you may know, many don’t on why I said this tag came timely. Well, let’s not dwell and let me get on with my tag homework ya. If things work out fine, I’ll announce it in a month’s time. *nyek nyek nyek* *wink*

If I’m given a free hand to choose between FTWM (Full Time Working Mom) and SAHM (Stay at Home Mom), I’ll likely opt to become a FTWM because:

1) I like the feeling of being able to spend what I earn without being questioned. Of course I’ll be happier if hubs willingly pay for all the expenses but which hubs wont nag if the wife spends too much?
2) I get meme time. I know I know. That’s a super duper selfish reason but strangely I always get this refreshed feeling when I see Ryan every day when I come home from work. I treasure him more, I’m more attentive, and definitely have more patience especially when he shows mummy his ever classic ANTICS!
3) I’m afraid I’ll be a WONG MIN POR and out of reach with the society if I don’t work. I am a lazy person. I can sleep all day, win the couch potato award, wear the same pj from day to night if I’m not going anywhere. So imagine 24×7 at home……. I wont be surprise if the postman conveniently mistaken me as the maid of the house. :P

Disclaimer:
I know there are many beautiful attractive SAHMs out there who are able to earn an attractive pay check without having to leave their home or the kids behind. So, the lame excuses I gave above were entirely my own interpretation of my feelings of one role vs. another. Any relation to anyone is strictly coincidence ya…. :D

Tag Baton:
1) My Life Zone – hope to know u better
2) Jacelyn – heehee.. u tagged me, i tag u.. dont angry ya
3) EstherL – u very quiet these days…

~~~Instructions~~~
Here’s how it works:
1. So easy peasy, if you were given a choice, would you be a SAHM or FTWM? Just provide 3 darn good reasons.
2. Include your post link to the list below and Finally,
3. Tag another three mommies

List:
1. Immomsdaughter prefers to be a SAHM
2. Etcetera~Mummy prefers to be a FTWM

24 thoughts on “Tag: FTWM vs SAHM”

  1. < ![CDATA[okok... will do my homework then.. personally feel this is a good TAG.. SAHM vs FTWM]]>

  2. < ![CDATA[okok... will do my homework then.. personally feel this is a good TAG.. SAHM vs FTWM]]>

  3. < ![CDATA[of course I won't be angry la....i like tags, coz it's fun to send things around. :)]]>

  4. < ![CDATA[of course I won't be angry la....i like tags, coz it's fun to send things around. :)]]>

  5. < ![CDATA[I know few SAHM who so concentrate on the kids that they don't even know what day is it. Everyday is the same...]]>

  6. < ![CDATA[I know few SAHM who so concentrate on the kids that they don't even know what day is it. Everyday is the same...]]>

  7. < ![CDATA[i will go gila if i stay at home...dunno how my mom can tahan take care of them (all 5 kids) every day!! she's super la!]]>

  8. < ![CDATA[i will go gila if i stay at home...dunno how my mom can tahan take care of them (all 5 kids) every day!! she's super la!]]>

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